How to Get What You Want In Life. Pt 3.

How To Make it Easier.

In Part 1 of this series I talked about one reason we find it hard to be direct with others. We think that being direct creates more conflict when in fact, by being in a non-judgemental way, it lowers the level of conflict by opening up the conversation. We also looked at how most of us didn’t grow up learning how to be direct in a useful manner. I offered a practice that can teach you the skill of being direct in a way that won’t escalate the conflict.
Lower conflict = we get more of what we want from life.

In Part 2 we tackled some of the inner voices that hold us back from being direct. These are voices that show up with all sorts of things to say about how dumb or bad or stupid we are and not one of them helps us get what we want from life.

If you haven’t read Part 1. Click Here and catch yourself up.

Did you also miss Part 2? Never fear, the link is Here!

LET GO OF YOUR PAST IN ORDER TO GET MORE OF WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE… NOW!

FEAR

Fear is another reason that we find ourselves avoiding being direct. Maybe in the past there were people who yelled at you when you asked for what you wanted or needed. Maybe you got told that it was “all your own shit”…